How to Use your Desire Deck
Who knew a pack of cards could make initiating intimacy so much more simple? Whether you are looking to initaite more sex, more playful sex, or balance the responsibility of initiating sex between you and your partner, you've found a magical deck of cards!
Designed to be flexible, these cards can be played several ways to invite playfulness and spontanaity into your sex lives! Let's dive in.
Solo vs Partner Cards
First, there are two types of card in the deck, solo and partner cards. Here's how to use each:
Solo Cards
Partner Cards
If a partner picks one of these cards, the couple will find time to do the activity listed together within the week. It could be helpful to schedule time within the week.
Find Your Desire Style: When to Use & Ways to Play
Regular Rendezvous
Use the cards as a weekly couple activity (as described in the card deck).
This way really focuses on sex and intimacy as a practice. Pick a card together at the beginning of each week, on Sunday for example. When picking a card, have the cards facing down. Each partner will select a card from the deck. If a solo card is selected, then the partner will hold onto the action item privately and play action out as suggested (today or at some point during the week). If a partner picks one of the partner cards, the couple will find time to do the activity listed together within the week.
Blended Boudoir
Divide the Deck: Some cards will be used for spontaneous inspiration andothers reserved for a weekly partnered activity.
Divide the deck into 2, one deck with solo prompts (red cards) and one deck with partnered prompts (pink cards). Each partner can select from the solo prompts whenever you wish. For the partnered prompts, plan a day of the week that partnered prompts are selected together.
We're Craving It
The last way that you can play is by bringing the deck out whenever you are looking to initaite more sex, more playful sex, or balance the responsibility of initiating sex between you and your partner. You can simple bring out the deck whenever you are craving more sex and ask your partner if they'd want to pull a card with you.
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